What are Online Dating Scams and what to do if I was scammed
 Starting from 12 December 2007, NextWink has been 99.9% scammer free.
Registrations have been tightened to only open to people from Australia and New Zealand IP addresses. This has effectively eliminated all attempts from overseas computers.
This is a lengthy page because the topic can never be emphasised enough. The page will keep getting longer every now and then.
Feel free to jump to Visitors/Members comments section or
fake profiles section. Fake profiles registered on NextWink (this happens to all online dating websites, paid and free) and their IP addresses have been traced to Nigeria or other a few offending countries such as Senegal, Ghana, etc.
(and they have been banned of course). These fake profiles are so-called Romance Scams - one of the many forms of Nigerian scams. By reading their messages below,
I hope you can get a feel about the common themes they portrait about themselves so that you would detect red flags in
early stages of this kind of scam.
If the person claims he/she is outside Australia/New Zealand, or short on cash, you should be on an immediate alert.
Update (23 July 2007): How con artists play the dating scam in the real world
I just created a new page about online dating scammers. First, I'd like to thank NextWink members who have emailed me and sent
me useful information on this. It has greatly helped me to compile the new page.
In the last couple of weeks, the number of scammers popping up on NextWink has dropped significantly. I have put quite a
few blocking mechanisms to either stop them from viewing the whole site, or flag / suspend their accounts. It has been very effective so far.
Update (6 July 2007): Male scammers
Most scammers list on this page have female profile. Be aware that male scammers also exist. One member emailed me today
and told me her story on another dating site. Here is her email (sorry, I can't tell you her username):
Just wish i had read your message a few months ago would have saved me thousands of dollars....too late for me but i hope the message gets through to others.....
I was scammed real good......He was very very good and i believed him.....They are as you say on nearly every dating site on the net....He didnt come from this site,
he was from (URL removed to protect you - Admin). and you know the annoying thing is that he is still on that site....i have told them but they didnt seem too interested.
Update (5 July 2007): Email from scammers
A member (thanks parttimedad) received an email on 3 July from the "Nigerian Anti-Scam Department" telling him about how they were
busting scammers and thanked him for a message he had sent them (which he didn't) and asking him to follow a link
to a virus-loaded fake webpage on a zombie network they were running in the US.
If you ever receive this kind of email, DO NOT FOLLOW the links in that email.
Here is the Nigerian scam email. I removed the links on the email. I don't want you to visit the virus-loaded website.
Nigerian romance scammers post fake profiles and target our members for emotional sympathy, trust, love, and eventually money. Don't open your hearts and wallets to them.
Their membership accounts are suspended as soon as they are found. Site-wide IP bans have also been implemented to ban Internet traffics from Nigeria and a few other offending countries.
While I'm doing my best to protect NextWink members, please make 1000% sure that you never, ever send any money to a person you have never met, no matter how true or how emotional their story may sound.
A common Romance Scam normally involves these steps:
The scammer posts an attractive photo (such as attractive professional models) and fake profile on the dating website.
Send messages to many members even though their profiles do not match at all.
In the message, the scammer normally shows some interests in the victim's profile and asks if the victim wants to know more about the scammer. Most of the time an email address of the scammer is included in the message.
If the scammer gets replies, he/she would make up stories and would normally claim how bad his/her current situation is and needs help to overcome it in some way. The scammer's story could be very emotional and easily gain sympathy and affection from the victim.
The scammer gradually lures the victim away from the messaging channels provided by the dating website towards external means such as personal emails, instant messaging, telephone calls, or even webcam (this is the scary part. They will find excuses not to show their real faces but they could take photos of the victim via webcam. Sometimes they ask the victim to get naked. The scammer would later demand for money by threatening with exposure of the victim's naked photos on internet).
No matter what the story is, after a period of establishing trust, romance, and desire, the scammer will ask for money to be sent in forms such as cash money orders for them, or send merchandise to them, currency exchange via a telegraphic money transfer service, usually Western Union or Moneygram, etc.
The scammer keeps asking for money until the victim can't afford or the fraud is perceived.
Note that the scammers steal attractive photos from other websites and use them in their fake profiles, so these photos have nothing to do with these scammers.
Scammers on this page are mainly from Nigeria and a few African countries. Here is a useful resources about Russian dating scams - Find more about the Russian dating scams and famous scammers activity and their methods. Detailed scammers profiles with pictures and descriptions. Find out whether a single lady is real or not!
Common red flags on scammers profile
A scammer normally creates profiles on multiple sites and they use pre-written profile copies. After having seen how they compose their usernames, profiles, and how they behave on a site, I have summed up the following tips to share with readers.
Tip 1: Red flag in general
The overall pattern of the dating scam is that a person who may contact you in order to obtain money. Scammers will use a false gender, name, age, country, occupation. They will describe them as honesty, kind, loyal, truthful, sweet, and caring. They will make up stories about their misfortunate and are in-need of your help.
Tip 2: Red flags in username
A scammer's username normally consists of love, trust, or sympathy related terms which are often combined with common first names. Common love, trust, or sympathy related terms include luv, love, nice, honest, faith, sweet, baby, care, angel, lonely, alone, 4u, real, etc. Commonly used first names are nancy, suzy, monic, cyndy, debby, sonia, jane, lori, laura, vanessa, etc.
Often the username can also contain some numbers at the end to help the scammers easily remember or track their uses on different dating sites. For example 'Vivian' may have '001' at the end.
Here is a sample of scammer usernames:
care4love
suzylove
lonelysara
angel099
Vivian001
greatlady4u
princess4u
aloneangel
faith2sweetgirl2u
singleangel
estherinlove007
vivian19
honestandlonely4u
dianaseeks
comlove77
care4me
toocare
lovenlife11212
john_prenso004
mclohan_john123
Tip 3: Red flags in email address
The most popular used email service by scammers is Yahoo Mail. Patterns in email addresses are similar to those in scammer usernames.
Some examples below:
bintamathew4luv at yahoo.com
debbie_care4u at yahoo.com
andrew_garfieldpets at yahoo.com
i2coolluv at yahoo.com
lori_joan4141 at yahoo.com
janejarrett007 at yahoo.com
uluvu2 at yahoo.com
vesacassavacompany at yahoo.com.au
steve_walterluv at yahoo.co.uk
Tip 4: Red flags in dating profile description
The dating site scammer often polish their personality traits in their profile as "easygoing, honesty, quiet, kind, loyal, truthful, straight forward, sincere, loving, understanding, caring, elegant, sociable, sensitive, gentle, cheerful, optimistic, romantic, warm, cuddly, hard-working, goal orientated, ambitious"...
Scammers use terms that are not normally used in the area location which they list in their profile. One scammer claimed to be in Australia and listed one of her favorite things as summer long rides on a motorcycle heading towards small villages. That's an obvious lie as there are no villages in Australia except farms. People don't use the word "village" in Australia for the meaning of rural regions or countryside area.
Tip 5: Red flags in chatting, messages or emails
This is a list of red flags that normally will happen after communications with the scammer started, either by way of text chat, on-site messages, or emails.
-- They quickly declare that they have fallen in love with you and insist that you have made a huge change in their lives.
-- They would normally say they live or born in USA, UK, Australia but have to go overseas to work in Ghana, Nigeria, or somewhere in Africa. But will be coming home soon.
-- They will spill their guts to you that how misfortunate they've been. The stories are always similar and play on your sympathies. One example is that they say they are widowed and their spouse and children are killed in an accident. They eventually tell you that they need some kind of help. Generally that help comes down to help with money. If this person was standing in front of you face to face, would you accept what they had to say?
-- Most scammers are from Africa or Russia, the scammers may misuse some terms that are obviously wrong. For example, in a chat during the day, a scammer who claimed to be in Brisbane and he kept saying "night" continuously.
-- Scammers will normally claim they don't visit the dating site often and request you to contact them directly via their email address or add them directly to your Instant Messenger.
Tip 6: Red flags in the member's age
Age for female scammers are normally span from 25 to 30 and they always try to target male dating members who are between 40 and 60 years of age because this age group is normally financially secure.
Age for male scammers are normally span from 40 to 50 and they always try to target female dating members who are between 40 and 60 years of age.
Tip 7: Red flags in photos
Most of the female scammers profiles use photos stolen from modeling websites, so the photos look neat and are very professionally taken.
Many male scammers use photos that appear to be everyday snaps. Scammers from African countries will send a passport-like photo of themselves. It will be very grainy and somewhat aged.
Tip 8: Red flags in English grammar and spelling
Grammar and spelling errors are normally everywhere in a scammer's profile and message. You can easily spot it, especially when the scammer shows you he/she has good education background such as Masters degree.
What to do if you suspect that someone is trying to scam you?
Some members ask the scammer questions about Australia (where she/he is living, what towns are around, Football or cricket questions, etc) and many times the scammer wouldn't have a clue.
Report your suspicion by contacting me. I will check out and monitor the reported profile and suspend it if it is a scam.
If you have been scammed, join Yahoo Group Romancescams for support and healing.
Educate yourself about these scams and help yourself to know how to prevent it from happening to you.
Happy and safe dating!
Disclaimer:
Pictures you see on this page have nothing to do with these scammers. They are used by scammers to cheat members without
knowledge and permission from people who are portrayed in these pictures. Scammers never upload their own photos and nobody
really knows who they are and how they look.
Online Dating Scammers on NextWink
| Username and Stolen Photo |
Profile Description |
Typical Messages Sent |
finalquestaff30
Age: 32, F
Seeking Man for Keeping Options Open
Date caught:
Dec 10 2007, 11:21:56 PM |
finalquestaff30@yahoo.com
My favorite physical activities are.....Aerobics, Baseball/Softball
Hi! I consider myself to be a fairly sweet and lovable gal. I am more of a one-on-one girl than a partier but I am fairly outgoing once I get to know a person. My patience level is fairly high, so I try to be open and kind to all people. My ideal day would be spent in nature either in the woods or on a beach. I enjoy hiking and boating. My ideal night would be spent camping or curled up in front of a good movie or a fireplace with my guy. As far as looks, I have shoulder-length dark blond hair and light brown eyes. I'm 5'10 and have a pretty nice build. My guy needs to be patient and caring. I want someone who I can be open and honest with and I will receive the same in response. I enjoy being able to talk all night if I can with a guy. I don't like those annoying little silences within a conversation. Creativity is a plus. Please be respectable, not enjoy being drunk, and most of all be romantic.
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Hello Good Morning How are you doing hope well ? I've consulted your profile and you seem like an interesting person. I would like to know more about you, I am single . I am looking for someone with whom I would be able to establish a relationship based on friendship and understanding. Your profile made me smile and you really seem like a nice person.I saw your profile and I thought it was totally irresistible and it stirred a lot of feelings. I would like you to contact me on my yahoo messenger which is
( finalquestaff30@yahoo.com ) Thanks. See you soon ...
Lisa |
suzzy1
Age: 25, F
Seeking Man for Long-term
Date caught:
Dec 08 2007, 08:03:18 AM |
suzancatim8@yahoo.com
can we meet here
i am a very good and honest baby
with understanding and i always want
to be around with by loversand friend
that understand the very important of me
and also know how to handle things in the
time of vour dating out or in the club maybe
consigning of all that you need in a woman
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n/a |
parisbill00
Age: 28, F
Seeking Man for Other Relationship
Date caught:
Dec 07 2007, 02:05:57 AM |
parisbill00@yahoo.com
Seeking for Mr.Right
Hi! I am a kind and fun-loving person who wishes to meet someone with those same qualities. I would like someone who is passionate about life and wants to take it to it's fullest, someone who cares about other people, someone who enjoys spending time with and showing affection to their partner, someone who likes to pamper and be pampered, and someone who likes to laugh and am a woman with a strong heart,loving, caring, honest, compassionate,affectionate, i also believe in God and have much faith in him. I like swimming, camping,fishing,reading & writing,tennis,American Football,Basketball,Baseball,golfing,swim ming,shopping etc.
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Thanks for the mail and i will like to know you much better and here is my e-mail address just write me there or add me....parisbill00@yahoo.com or parisbill00@hotmail.com
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You got a wonderful and fascinating profile.I cant just ignore my eyes on what i just saw concerning you so i had to send you an email and show my interest.Have been on this for less than 1week now and I'm in search of my Soul & Dream Mate,let me give you a brief introduction of me.My name is Paris, I'm an American Born .I'm a student studied the course Banking/Finance processing with my Degree.I'm a single woman for now.I Have been single for the past few months, am a woman with a strong heart,loving, caring, honest, compassionate,affectionate, i also believe in God and have much faith in him. I like swimming, camping,fishing,reading & writing,tennis,American Football,Basketball,Baseball,golfing,swim ming,shopping etc.when i read through your profile i was really amazed and motivated to send you an email and show my interest..I would want us to continue this conversation further through my email which is Parisbill00@yahoo.com or parisbill00@hotmail.com and PLs i want you to make sure you never reply me to the site because i only come online here often Email me direct to my box and i will send you my photo.Parisbill00@yahoo.com or parisbill00@hotmail.com "Hope to hear from u very soon.Have a Nice day.
Lisa. |
CASSY_BOBBY
Age: 47, M
Seeking Woman for Long-term
Date caught:
Dec 06 2007, 11:50:27 PM |
bb_galadima@yahoo.com
LOOKING FOR TRUE WOMAN TO BE MY WIFE,AM A COOL AND LOVING MAN WITH A CARING HEART.I LIKE TO BE HONEST AND SINCERE IN ALL I DO.CUTIE...
CUTIE,AM A COOL AND GENTLE GOOD LOOKING MAN.I LIVE MY LIFE IN FULLEST OF COMPASSION,AM SINCERE,HONEST,PASSIONATE,CARING AND SERIOUS IN ALL I DO.I WISH I COULD MEET A CARING,SERIOUS,PASSIONATE AND CARING WOMAN TO BE MY LIFE PARTNER.I HAVE BEEN LIVING ALONE FOR SO LONG BUT I WANNA HAVE A NEW LIFE WITH A GOOD AND HONEST WOMAN.I WILL QUIT MY JOB WITH EVANS CRUDE OIL IMMEDIATELY I GAT YOU.
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n/a |
sweetmonic
Age: 26, F
Seeking Man for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 25 2007, 02:31:32 AM |
adiza_hezypee@yahoo.com.au
hello folks
hello there, am jen single never married i dont have kids am very honest loving understandin affectionate compassionate with great sense of homour caring calm affectionate loyal down to earth , i am looking for Mr. right someone who knows what he is looking for someone who wanted to settle down caring gentle guy humple kind hearted man.
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hi , thxx for ur mail plss can u tell me something about ur self ??
adiza_hezypee@yahoo.com.au hope to hear from u soon.
if u have msn here is my id , squinera@hotmail.com |
vaun1
Age: 49, M
Seeking Woman for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 29 2007, 03:07:02 AM |
v_aunwapole@yahoo.co.uk
looking for my soulmate
am cool calm and collected,easygoing and fun loving. love the outdoors and love spending time with loved ones.am fun to be with and want a hones ,caring and loving woman who ready for serious relationship.Ask me if you want to know more
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Hello Dear,
I came accross your profile and really liked it and also found it interesting, i want to get to know you more,but let me start by telling you about myself.My name is Vaun, I am from Alicespring,Nother territory, I am 47yrs old . I am a widower, i lost my wife 5yrs ago in an auto accident with my mom the same day...I lost my dad when i was 25yrs and am the only child of my parents, now i have no family, but i do have a daughter, she is my life, she is now 12yrs old, Her name is Benitta, she is loving and intelligent like me.....I have a kind heart and I have a lot of love in my heart to give it to my beloved woman.I am an optimist and do hope that one day I will see a smile that will fill my life with sunny rays of happy family life. I will do my best to create warm tender atmosphere and special coziness where one can feel comfortable. My ambition is to inspire my beloved woman constantly, to help her to keep the balance between career and private life, just as he will help me and inspire me to do good. But Its always for me Love is first. I need a friend for sharing life, who wants to create a strong family. I want to take long walks with her and share our life's journeys with all joys and sorrows. - I d like to look up to her as an authority for me, to be proud of her, to adore her and give her my femininity, devotion, understanding,?? kindness, care, calmness, cheerfulness,soul support and my great love. I'm normal man who dreams about human happiness There are so many interesting things around worthy to be seen and amazed together with a special person like you.....you can email me at v_aunwapole@yahoo.co.uk or add me to my yahoo messanger , which is v_aunwapole , I will be waiting to read back from you, I am intelligent, honest and good hearted man, non-smoker and non-drinker, good sense of humor. I will be waiting to read back from you. Thanks and God bless you.
With Love.
Vaun |
tolly
Age: 30, F
Seeking Man for Dating/Romance
Date caught:
Nov 29 2007, 11:43:43 AM |
tollybrumley@yahoo.com
Am tired of being lonely in the world i want a perfect,caring,honest,Godfearing man
Now,i looking for a new love,relationship (Mr Right) i dont know if its you ? But the kind of man am looking for must be very well responsible,honest,caring,lovely,open minded. As for the type of companion I desire. It is rather simple. Race, ethnicity, and physical appearance in general is not problem. My interest is in a good personality and sense of humor for I need someone to lift my spirits. I generally prefer men in the age range of 30-60bcos i belive age its just a number, but am open to any depending upon their sharing the intimate side of myself with someone willing to do the same. I hope to find a man that I could possibly have a new life and beginning with me.You can kindly email me honestly on Y! my user name is : tollybrumley at yahuu !uu! /dot/c/o/m add me on Y! instant messenger honestly on Y! my user name is: tollybrumley at yahuu !uu! /dot/c/o/m. So we could talk more better. So hope to hear from you soon.
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Hi cute!
I Hope you are doing Great Today and Your Day went as You have always wished.I have the feeling that this piece of mail will reach you in a perfect state of mind and in a better healthy condition. I came accross your profile and decided to contact you.
I believe and also have the feeling that in todays world, neither race, age,nationality nor religion will any longer posse a barrier to male/female relationships. .I'm Open Minded,Caring,Respective,Easy Going,Compassionate,Tender Loving,Affectionate ,Trust Worthy ,Honest and God Fearing..Am looking forward to meet an Intelligent, Honest ,Caring ,Faithful , loving Affectionate, loyal and understanding man.Although, we do not know each other well but I will really like to know more about you and if possible go into a relationship,if that is better for you. My name is Tolly Brumley am single never been married and am faithfull nice caring honest loving kind .I'm Open Minded,Caring,Respective,Easy Going,Compassionate,Tender Loving,Affectionate ,Trust Worthy ,Honest and God Fearing..Am looking forward to meet an Intelligent, Honest ,Caring ,Faithful , loving Affectionate, loyal and understanding man and what do you look for in a woman and how may I entice you? I will also like to see your face sometime, your shinning handsome face...I\'m sure it\'s like the sun. I really know how to treat man and how to love man, pls reply as soon as possible. Let\'s be like honeybees and make something sweet and also if to you care kindly email me on honestly: tollybrumley@yahoo.com or add me on yahoo instant messenger honestly : tollybrumley@yahoo.com... So we could talk more better. So hope to hear from you as soon as asps!!!! |
babytolove
Age: 27, F
Seeking Man for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 26 2007, 10:04:11 PM |
rabiux03@yahoo.com
searching for a long term relationship
I am a single girl of 25 years old beautiful and loving kindness from Somalia.i am gentle, humble, truetful, highly loving and caring. i like giving out when ever i have, making freinds and creating good reputations among human limite. Iam a practical christain and i move with faith in the lord also am looking for my real life partner to share my life with and make up a home with the fear of God and humanity.
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HI Dear,
Complements of the day to you, how are you? hope you are fine and in perfect condition of health. My name is Rabiu Mohamed Yussuf Weyrah 25years old from Somalia. I went through your profile and I read it and took interest in it, if you don't mind I will like to know you much better, although I came online to look for a true and loving man that is ready for a true, honest and loving relationship and will be able to take good care of me if you are the kind of man am talking about then send me a mail now on my private email included, (rabiux01@yahoo.com) so that I will tell you all about myself. Looking forward to hearing from you, thanks and God bless.
(rabiux01@yahoo.com)
Best Regards
Rabiu |
faithseeklove
Age: 30, F
Seeking Man for Keeping Options Open
Date caught:
Nov 20 2007, 11:01:58 PM |
letmeet4love@yahoo.com
Seeking for love
'll make this short and sweet. I'm very driven,Most importantly,i will not want you to get interested in my look alone because, my inside is just bursting with good things to share in a relationship.i am real hearted and i like doing all i can to make everyone around me happy and i never want to feel the way i felt with my Ex,i cant hurt a fly and i do not want to get hurt anymore.I'm wise beyond my years but who doesn't like dancing in the rain or been naked in the privacy of their own home?i would love to meet the right guy after some time of chatting on here just to know some little things about each other which i think it is the reason why we both came to the site,I don't care how far away you are because,to me the most important thing is the chemistry we build within the little time we meet on here and then we could plan on how and where we could meet face to face,I believe in SPARKS tho.'ll make this short and sweet. I'm very driven,Most importantly,i will not want you to get interested in my look alone because, my inside is just bursting with good things to share in a relationship.i am real hearted and i like doing all i can to make everyone around me happy and i never want to feel the way i felt with my Ex,i cant hurt a fly and i do not want to get hurt anymore.I'm wise beyond my years but who doesn't like dancing in the rain or been naked in the privacy of their own home?i would love to meet the right guy after some time of chatting on here just to know some little things about each other which i think it is the reason why we both came to the site,I don't care how far away you are because,to me the most important thing is the chemistry we build within the little time we meet on here and then we could plan on how and where we could meet face to face,I believe in SPARKS tho.
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Hello Dear,
Thanks for your response to my profile..well am faith by name am new to this online stuff and i am looking for a real man to start a new life with,Well i will like to tell you more about my self and t know more about you..I work as a model and am presently in African Nigeria ,but i will be back to the state soon,.am single since i caught my boy friend sleeping with my best friend,and i just lost my parent in a car accident last yr and the only brother i had was a drug addict and i don't know where to find him...but i have taken that off my mind and now i am looking for true love..and i like what i read in your profile and i found it lovely,interesting as well,i want you to also go thru mine and if you are interested do write me to my private mail. i want you to get back to me if you will like to meet me in person.i am willing to relocate and have a good life.. letmeet4love@yahoo.com do write me and tell me more about your self and what you want in a relationship.
Hope to read from you soon.
Faith |
cyndy01
Age: 32, F
Seeking Man for Dating/Romance
Date caught:
Nov 17 2007, 12:24:21 AM |
cynthiabob202@yahoo.co.uk
looking for the right man!!!
I'm a nice and down to earth kind of a person, caring and loving and friends say, i am the kind of person that knows what she really wants and i am here for a serious relationship that will last forever. I'm looking for an honest and open minded man that is ready to love and be loved in return, someone that will really make me happy and ready to accept my son, i'm a single mom and hope that wont be a problem?
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I will be glad to get to know more about you and also share about myself with you, you can check my profile and know more about me, you can as well contact me on my email or yahoo messenger my id is cynthiabob202@yahoo.co.uk i'm looking for a serious relationship that will be full of happy home and last forever.
Your age is not a problem for me, infact i have made up my mind never to date any younger men again in my life, ex messed up my love and since then i have been careful going into relationship because i dont want to be hurt anymore, my son is 4 yrs old and i am looking for a serious relationship that will last forever, you can chat with me on yahoo messenger my id is cynthiabob202@yahoo.co.uk or you email me i will be waiting to hear back from you.
Regards
Cynthia. |
Icare4u
Age: 46, M
Seeking Woman for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 17 2007, 12:14:55 PM |
uluvu2@yahoo.com
Happy with my life... but will be happier when it's our life
Am just a simple man with a simple ambition and that is to have a perfect relationship with a woman, when i find one, I am a warm, tactile, lol, honest, passionate, confident, independent person who enjoys every aspect of life and believes in NOW."The past cannot be revisited and the future might never arrive, so the only time I really have is TODAY and I intend to make the most of it. i'm down to the earth, easy going,I have a cheeky sense of humour and prefer spontaneity, flexibility, honesty and open-mindedness. I enjoy being active in life,..I'm religious and my greatest inspiration is God...I believe in respecting one's feelings and accepting people as they are. I don't smoke nor take drugs, I’m not married and I have no kids.
I’m looking for a woman I have something in common with and I'm open to all possibilities from just being friends to having a serious monogamous relationship.
The following IS NOT a must have list. You DO NOT need to have everything I mention below in order for me to be interested in you but more would be better.
Basically I like confident women that think for themselves, don’t follow the crowd or do things just because everyone else seems to be doing it. I also like natural, down 2 earth, easy going women , don't do drugs and are into staying healthy and fit.
What I mean by natural:
-You prefer natural cures to taking drugs but aren't totally opposed to modern medicine.
-You believe a healthy diet and exercise are the best ways to feel and look your best.
I hope to find a real 'gentlewoman,in every sense of the word, with whom I can share some happiness and joy..a matureminded woman who understands what real love is all about A loving, intelligent, caring, funloving and honest woman.A positive romantic who has warmth, generosity, compassion and love; someone secure and confident in herself to be both serious and jovial; one not afraid to experiment, communicate or commit and who wishes to enjoy every precious minute of the rest of her life with someone like me. In brief, someone truly special and quite extraordinary.
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I'm looking for a woman I have something in common with and I'm open to all possibilities from just being friends to having a serious monogamous relationship.
The following IS NOT a must have list. You DO NOT need to have everything I mention below in order for me to be interested in you but more would be better.
Basically I like confident women that think for themselves, don't follow the crowd or do things just because everyone else seems to be doing it. I also like natural, down 2 earth, easy going women , don't do drugs and are into staying healthy and fit.
What I mean by natural:
-You prefer natural cures to taking drugs but aren't totally opposed to modern medicine.
-You believe a healthy diet and exercise are the best ways to feel and look your best.
Hello,
I am very impressed with your profile and intrigued by your integrity.Your personality of being friendly and fun
loving is very attractive to me. You seem quite intelligent and have a mature perspective on life.am a travel man looking
for a friendship maybe could lead to longterm relationship if things work out well,one i could spend the rest of my life
with.would you love to chat through mails and phon ?Reply me on uluvu2@yahoo.com cos am not frequent on this site.
Anthony |
tandiman
Age: 46, M
Seeking Woman for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 14 2007, 06:17:42 AM |
candychase_rome@yahoo.com
COME LIGHT UP MY WORLD
First i will Like to Thank you for a Taking a Peep at My Profile, and i am
seeking a permanent diversion from my work in the form of a woman who can capture, and keep, my vivid imagination. I don't want to incorrectly abuse the word "soulmate", since it appears that 99% of all people misuse that word, forgetting that the "soul" is INSIDE the body. Being a soulmate has little to do with physical appearance. I don't associate a woman s physical beauty with having a beautiful soul. So now, I find myself missing the special qualities of a woman, like yours! My perception of an ideal relationship would consist of mutual attraction for one another, loyalty, trust and respect for each other. We would be best friends. We would share the ability to communicate with each other and understand one another without passing judgment. When we make mistakes we are able to forgive because we would both understand that we don't live in a perfect world. I'm not looking for the perfect woman, just a woman that would be perfect for me! Now here you are... you reading this complex profile, and me hoping to hear from you... if you are that mysterious female that has eluded me for so long! I almost sure you don't live in my neighborhood, because I have looked! I can only assume that you might live in some faraway place! So, now that you have found me, let me know that you are the one I seek.
You are a woman that is not afraid of adventure; adversity; your own sexuality; change; success; failure; strangers; or water. You believe acting on logic is more rational. than acting on emotion, but you must have passions and emotions! You can be comfortable with, or without make-up, in casual shorts, or an evening dress. I just want to meet a woman that can be normal, nutty, funny, sincere, and slightly off-center; but with flair, some sensitivity and honesty; and with just a touch of curiosity! If this description sounds like you then we will get along just fine! I'm not looking for the perfect woman... I just want to find a woman that is perfect for ME! Is that TOO MUCH to ask? So write me!..........IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE A GAME PLAYER PLS DONT EMAIL ME .LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE SPENT ON PLAYING GAMES.
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Ciao Bella ,'How 're you doing,..I hope all is fine with you over there ...Actually i was Searching through the Members Profile when i come accross your profile and i feel so amazed about your profile cause it reallycaught my Instincts and it ll be a pleasure to know more about you ....Your Likes and Dislikes...Grazia
About me.....Am Antonio Bullino6.14"dark Brown hair,brown eyes: I love to laugh, can entertain, I am intelligent, Hardworking i am self employed .i am a Woodwork Carpenter also i do wood works,am into Antiques and Fabricks sales Also and i do Roofs Windows .so when you have Got a Bad window dont be scared just Get To me we can Discuss about that .i am to be honest, am looking for long last relationships from a Godfearing woman Becos the Bible says that the Fear Of God is the Begining Of Wisdom , not one night stand! I live alone with my Dog , I'm a non-smoker. Light social drinker. Drug free, head on straight! Professional wman, confident, secure in myself. Loves to spoil and be spoiled.
i am seeking a Truth, loving, caring, woman. {smoker} Dont really matter ..All i need Is Love and passion ,a romantic person is a PLUS!! Someone who is willing to share 100/100 in a relationship & life. No game player here,cos Life i stoo Short to be spent only on Playing Games and Guessing . I want someone who will talk and will listen. Enjoy walks together, just having a good time, simple pleasures, picnics, I'm not impressed by your bank account, but who YOU are. Cos True Love dont ask fear Location dont Bother about Height weight Color Race or being wealthy or Poor ,so i am seeking such True Love ,and i was Tempted and Convinced that i will see that Perfect woman for me on here in nextwink.com which might Turn out to be you ,who Knows .all i know is that a Journey of a Million Miles starts with a Footstep and here i have Taken that Footstep by sending you this Email.
I ll be very happy to hear from you once Again cause your Profile is my Number one on this nextwink.com and it ll be lovely to know what you have in mind.......
For more details you can Contact me on my E-mail address ..because i check my email all day than the nextwink.candychase_rome@yahoo.com
Write me and you wont Regret.
Antonio Bullino |
cheerfullove
Age: 31, F
Seeking Man for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 13 2007, 09:11:47 AM |
janejarrett007@yahoo.com
Searching an honest man who i will give all too...
Am just myself, i enjoy meeting people, going to beach, theater, museum, comedy club, going to the park, walking round the house, listening to music, watching movies also playing video games.... Am an honest lady with open mind, caring, loving, am understanding, easy going person, very romantic, sincere, loyal, trust worthy also love creative new things. I will tell you more about myself also if you are honest and truly interested, do get in touch with me with your e-mail address and i will response as soon as possible and i will send you my pictures.....
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Woo,
What nice profile you have, well am Jane Jarrett by name also a new member and i don't know much about online dating. Have gone through your lovely profile and i love what i saw there also am looking forward to meet you and to know more about you... I want you to get in touch with me through my e-mail address below if you are truly interested.. janejarrett007@yahoo.com
Waiting to hear back from you also i will send you my pictures into your e-mail address..
Sincerely,
Jane |
debbydebbie
Age: 30, F
Seeking Any for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 12 2007, 09:42:36 AM |
debbie_allalone@yahoo.com
Looking for a home in your heart.....
Hello,
My name is Debra Downes born deaf and dumb right from birth, Am 5, 0 inches tall, 148lbs, Black hair and blue eyes. i love doing anything out door like camping, swiming, runing, take a work to the beach, moving house, shopping. travelling and ready to relocate to any other state. Am here looking for a real love cause i have been hurt so many times and i really will not like it to happen to me so am here now for a longterm relationship and see where it will take me too i am new to this online dating thing as i was introduced to it by a friend to cure me of my loneliness.. Am nice and caring woman , honest, easy going, kind, friendly, truthful, faithful, and trust worthy and same i want my man to be also, so that we both can live happily... I don't have a kid' never been married before, but date and did not work out. i love kid's and i dont mind having mine with the rite partner.
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hello,
if you care for a chat you can join me at debbie_allalone@yahoo.com or debbie_allalone@hotmail.com so we can talk and share opinions.....waiting for you online....
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Hello,
My name is Debra Downes from hughes springs Tx, born deaf and dumb right from birth, Am 5, 0 inches tall, 148lbs, Black hair and blue eyes. i love doing anything out door like camping, swiming, runing, take a work to the beach, moving house, shopping. travelling and ready to relocate to any other state. Am here looking for a real love cause i have been hurt so many times and i really will not like it to happen to me so am here now for a longterm relationship and see where it will take me too i am new to this online dating thing as i was introduced to it by a friend to cure me of my loneliness.. Am nice and caring woman , honest, easy going, kind, friendly, truthful, faithful, and trust worthy and same i want my man to be also, so that we both can live happily... I don't have a kid' never been married before, but date and did not work out. i love kid's and i dont mind having mine with the rite partner. ypu can mail me back at debbie_allalone@yahoo.com and tell me more about yourself so we can get to know each other better..... |
alua
Age: 28, F
Seeking Any for Long-term
Date caught:
Nov 12 2007, 12:45:29 PM |
sepro2029@yahoo.com
looking for a real man
i will tell you later,i will tell you latei wili will tell you later,l tell you later,r,
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Hey,How are you doing? Hope you are doing pretty good.... I like what i see in your profile.. i want to know more about you ,I am new to this online thing so please bear with me. I just wanted to drop you a line to let you know that I am interested in getting to know more about you after reading your profile. I guarantee that I am a nice lady and know how to treat a man... I have a degree in Accounting and minnor in Art. you seems to be a very down to earth man and I really admire that! .I guess I will leave you with this for now. I hope your day went well and I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks for reading this! I practically wrote you a book! Hehe! .
Feel free to write me back directly,
my screen name is..i2coolluv@yahoo.com
Cause i hardly visit this site and i hope to hear from you soon
From,
Anita Lovely. |
quanna
Age: 35, F
Seeking Man for Keeping Options Open
Date caught:
Nov 11 2007, 08:07:21 AM |
dar24a@gmail.com
Looking for Mr. Right
Am outgoing, sincere,honest,spontaneous, lovable,likeable, enjoyable, incredible person. I like to have a good time and I know how to have a good time. But I also know when and where to be serious and not mess around. I am looking for a friend someone to hang out and do things with that may consist of going out, dancing, dinner, movies, or one who could stay at home and cuddle and have a
nice quiet or enjoyable time at home. If it were to lead to something more then that would be great to. I believe that a true relationship comes from and grows through a friendship. I am ready are you? Guess we could find out if you are interested.
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Hello,
Am Quanna.Am looking for a nice, smart (but yet in a funny way too), honest, lovable, attractive, man who likes to have a good time and can be spontaneous yet know when to be serious as well.
If you are ready to have a good time and see whats is out there then right here is the place to be and start.Will be glad to know you better.Am currently in ireland on a family visit but I will
be coming to your area in 4 weeks time to come and undertake a project and i will be glad if you can show me around You can IM me at yahoo on smith_quanna or email me on smith_quanna at yahoo dot com.
Hope to read from you soon.
Quanna. |
anini20
Age: 28, F
Seeking Any for Dating/Romance
Date caught:
Nov 10 2007, 11:23:46 AM |
jenlove@doramail.com
looking for the right path
I am into the Sales of Sculptures , beeds , gold ,and i like making friends no matter the age, race, religion, language he speaks and my kind of friend must be
very honest, friendly, caring, loving, understanding, handsome and most
of all must have the fear of God in him. i believe u possess some of
these qualities if not all. my hobbies are site seeing, listening 2 music
and reading.........my favourite colours are white and blue .I am real easy person to talk to and a good listene
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kimberganti28
Age: 32, F
Seeking Man for Keeping Options Open
Date caught:
Nov 10 2007, 08:45:18 AM |
kimberganti28@yahoo.com.au
looking for mr right.
am looking for the man of honest caring and lovely,should be tall average.
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How are you doing today?? I like your profile and everything you said on your profile is interesting, anyway My Name is Kim,I'm 38yrs old, single.... I just moved to Bundaberg,Queensland few weeks ago but presently am in Lagos(Nigeria) with my sick mom trying to claim my late Dad's property.... well it's quite difficult to write about oneself when u know that others will be judging u on what u write, i'm just going to be simple and fly straight. I've been told that i'm a classylady with a great dress sense,i'm an optimistic person who has a variety of interests open minded, creative, adventurous and spontaneous. Someone who is gentle yet aggressive, sexy and ravenous yet romantic, playful and confident, I love to be pleased. I am hungry, come feed me if you can. I am a very open minded person and very accepting. When it comes to a man that I care about I am affectionate and passionate. I love to kiss...please do mail back at kimberganti28@yahoo.com.au if you're interested.
i await your message.
Hugs and Kisses,
Love Kim berganti. |
sonia77
Age: 22, F
Seeking Man for Friends
Date caught:
Nov 10 2007, 04:25:56 AM |
oforabadi74@yahoo.com
i need a friend
hello iam nice and good looking girl that like making friend and going out with them i have being to many places and i will like you to join me here.
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FROM: Miss.Sonia Adams
P.O. Box 4825.
Ashmun & Randall Streets
Monrovia Liberia
I have a transaction of mutual benefits, which I like to share with you. It involves one metallic box containing 220KG Alluvial Gold Dust purity worth 22carat deposited in private security company which I like to acquire with your help and you will be compensated adequately as your commission.If you are interested please reply instantly with your contact information and forward your telephone number so we may discuss and I shall provide you with the details of this transaction. Contact me on my private mail box sonia_adams74@yahoo.com for confidential reasons
Yours Lovely
Miss sonia Adams |
Kendraseekslove
Age: 29, F
Seeking Any for Dating/Romance
Date caught:
Nov 09 2007, 06:31:19 PM |
kenvistocci@yahoo.com
seeking for true love
I am 5' 6",I weigh 110 (50 kg),My hair is light brown, My eyes are Blue My body style is average Build.
i like anything outdoor such as going to beach,listening to music,hangout with friends,going to cinema to watch movie.
i will love to meet someone cool and caring person trusthworthy,honest and cool person that can take care of me and i will be with him till the rest of my life and i will be caring and lovely to him if only he can promise not to cheat on me.
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Dec 29 2009 10:33:09 AM GMT Hi ,i have found a person call mellissa miller from match.com and she is from france live in nigeria and coming to melbourne now she is sick and asking for money.i didn't send any money but who ever it is got my photo & my name do you think can they use my photos for there next victim.and how i can i come out from this.the persons email address is melissamiller52@hotmail.com.
Pls find this scam cause inocent person can get in to a trouble. Nov 26 2009 08:38:11 AM GMT the following e-mail was recieved (gotta be a scam)
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Hello my dear ,
my name is Lydia, i am a tall good looking girl with a good heart , i am in this love dating site to look for my soul mate my love and sweet heart.I read your profile and i become interested in you and i want to know more about you maybe we can start a good and a lasting relationship from here . please kindly write me through my private e-mail (lydia_fripong@yahoo.com) so that we can know more about ourselves and share pictures .
bye with a nice kiss .
Lydia. Oct 27 2009 14:44:02 PM GMT I believe jjohnsonfun@yahoo.com is a scammer. He goes by the name of James Johnson. I can email emails I have recieved from him.
Thank You for your help.
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